My wife of fifty years has only recently come to accepting my dressing. Her first inkling of acceptance was consenting to my wearing panties, which she helped pick out. I then broached the subject of wearing a bra due to gynecomastia, and she helped choose one as well. Next was my suggestion of sleeping in a night gown, and again, she helped me purchase one. When cold weather was here, I had to work outside and suggested that I wear leggings for comfort. She bought me a pair which I have been wearing frequently.
We now spend our evenings relaxing in panties, bra, nightgown and leggings, which has become our new normal. I have no plans to further my feminine presentation and am quite content and grateful for her acceptance.