I was caught by family members by friends of the family and laughed with my soon-to-be wife over my 48 years of life. I always thought my brothers and sisters remembered but we never speak about it so I don't know when I came out to my sister just a few years ago she completely. When I came out to my mom a few years ago she was like oh I know so I guess people remember what they want to. When I came out to my wife however it can brought back an instance when I was sleep living alone they went over to my apartment her and her daughter and they had to move my laundry and I had left a pair of panties in there they brushed it off as I was cheating ww I didn't know what to do