I sorta feel like I have two different responses to this question--on the one hand, I would say no, in that my wife and I both dress largely for comfort and functionality, and on the rare occasions that more formal or fancy attire is required we both seem to usually wind up at similar levels of frilly-ness, if that's a word. But in behavior and personality, I tend to be quite a bit more 'girly', since she has always felt more comfortable expressing herself in what society would consider masculine ways. Just to be clear, I'm not saying that she's manly by any means; but the directness or sometimes even aggressiveness with which she often communicates, as well as many of her hobbies and pastimes, are generally viewed by a broad swath of the populace as masculine. For a long time that bothered us both, but in time we realized that as long as we're content with each other then outside judgements don't matter. In a way it's a relief for me that she is that way, because if she were inclined to go "girly" I'd likely suffer horrible insecurity, since she's one of those women that somehow simply don't grasp how stunning they really are. 😋
