I must say, that normally i am totally turned off by anything physical with another guy. BUT, WHEN LOOKING GORGEOUS, i do fantasize about turning on certain older men. I met with four over the years, but, never allowed it go to any type of penetration. I must say, part of me really was thrilled, with a man caressing my legs. I get messages on other sites regularly by "admirers", but they usuall y want me to do things i will not do, so i delete them.. VERY CAUTIOUS. And the fantasy usually is far better than the reality.