For the longest time, I accepted the then widely held notion that associated CDing with homosexuality, and I made assumption that I must be gay or bi because I liked to present myself as a woman. Toyed with the idea but, although I do find the fantasy of m/m erotic, in the final analysis, I don't find men sexually attractive. Ive tried....it just wasn't there. I have a lot of gay friends, but thats all...and I guess its too bad, because I could have a much more active social life if I could swing that way.