I agree with Doc. This is a really weird thread. Not because of the OP's remarks, but because of the unbelievable negative reaction to it. As I mentioned above, I've been caught en femme several times by housekeeping. They clean the room. I sit in a chair and read my book, or work on my laptop. It's no big deal. If you're just sitting there in street clothes, doing what you would ordinarily be doing, it doesn't matter whether you're in drab or en femme, and it's no big deal. If there's something overtly sexual about the encounter, then that IS a big deal, but it still doesn't matter whether you're in drab or en femme.