I don't have facial hair so that is not the problem for me. My wife has seen me "dressed" from the neck down and as most wives go, she is NOT happy about it. When I am dressed, I see myself as being a woman and to be honest I LIKE WHAT I SEE AND FEEL!!!!!!! I don't want to be seen as a man in drag so I guess you can call me a "stay at home dragster". I do go out at night for a drive and that fulfills a very basic need but I need to do more and at one point I guess I will. If you feel satisfied and fulfilled in your situation then accept it and be happy.
Mollyanne