As you see Tammy there is no one right answer because we are all different and there is no one size fits all solution.
Being a CD or even transgender is a very hard road to go down.
Would I have chose to be a CD no of course not what guy would?
Being gay doesn't make it ant easier either so I have the double whammy working against me because gay guys want a guy not a guy that is more female than male.
I think trying to get him to view this site would help him a lot it sure helped me.
He has probably seen all the trashy porn CD sites and thinks this one is just like it but its really not like that at all we are here to help each other.
Maybe just leave this site open and let him find it.Perhaps he will see your post and see you are trying hard to understand whats going on with him.