I see many of you talking about guilt related to the dressing. It intrigues me because I never felt such a thing. I could say I felt shame or ridicule, but that shame or ridicule were mostly derived from how I imagined people would judge me if they knew (given remarks I have witnessed about other men doing it publicly), and not from how I judged myself. I don't think CDing is ridiculous or shameful. Silly at times maybe. And the only guilt I ever felt in respect to CDing was from lying to my wife, and not because of the dressing per se.
What guilt can we have for a crime that has no victim? Is it because you lied to your SO? Or because you consider it something that is forbidden by some natural or social law? Were you even able to understand why you feel guilt?
