hello Melissa here, though I haven't responded in some times I've been a member since 2005. And while I came out to close family in 2012, this week I managed to come out to my neighbor. She had seen me, but earlier this week we spent the evening with/ some beers talking and I brought up mially the pink bathing suit she'd seen me wear. She is cool with my "dressing." especially the pink bathing suit that I regularly swim in
