Cecily, every fem item I've ever bought I bought in guy mode, everything from cosmetics, lingerie, outer wear, shoes and wigs. If its outerwear, I'll sometimes hold it up to 'examine' it with others noticing, and if there's a female behind me in line, I' often ask her if she thinks its pretty. You can do it, too. Mall Wig store: She asked if I was an actor. I replied it was for me. Her jaw dropped, then she had a big smile and helped me in selecting and fitting. I loved it!