Just as you shouldn't beat yourself up or over analyze why you dress, I don't think one should worry or feel abnormal about their sexual desires when dressed.
For me, dressing can be a major sexual stimulation and often my desire is for a man. When dressed I am very turned on at the thought of orally pleasing a guy and I have a real desire to be penetrated. I have played with men when dressed, without any regret and yes, I'll do it again.
Enjoy the variation and embrace your desires. If you don't like it, don't continue.
