I have a FTM step son who's dad died 2 years ago. I will call her Matt to make it easier. Matt has been on hormones for a yearand just had chest reduction surgery. Matt is 20 . We as a family live in different homes for now for various reasons. I am at a delema to tell Matt about me cross dressing. I think at this time Matt needs a dad and the cross dressing might just mess stuff up . In my heart I want to be honest. But to be real and a good dad and male role model I think I should just keep the cross dressing to myself . You alls input would be appreciated. Thank you so much.