My wife and I are in a DADT marriage. It is really a DADT marriage with nothing done to display any femininity on my part. I do not do any body modifications. I do not shave my body which is rather hairless to begin with, especially my legs. The forearms are a different story. My wife does not make any negative comments about cross dressing. My wardrobe is "hidden" in plain sight. My wardrobe is stored in the "rec" room which has turned into a storeroom. My clothes are stored in Xerox boxes stacked up. I maintain a 'word' document with each dress described by style, color and size. Along with that is a file folder with a picture of each dress. It makes it easier to select a dress to wear. I have 158 dresses. My wife does not know I have even one. If she does know, she hasn't said anything.....not a hint. It would be nice to be able to hang them in a closet, but, alas that is not going to happen.