My wife just found out....

[Shayna]

Good for you! As others have said, tread carefully. Every day she may discover new emotions about this.

[Pumped]

Happy for you Just as a heads up as well.. not saying this is going to happen, but personally I went through periods of accepting and then freaking out about my husband's cd-ing... when he first told me. One day Id be out shopping with him for a new dress and then the next thought would be "what if hes keeping something from me? .. I didnt know this big secret that hed been keeping for so long.. he might have others"... Im a lot more stable now and am much more secure ... but just a note your wife MIGHT still have some negative thoughts sometimes.... Just keep loving your wife though, Im sure you guys can get through everything

Pretty typical!
I don't fully dress, just women's jeans, and high heels. One day my wife mentioned she found a pair of heels at a second shop she considered buying for me. Two days later as I was sitting there in a pair of women's short jean shorts and heels she gave me a grimace and asked if i could put some manly guy clothes on as she had enough. I let her catch her breath and gave in for a couple days, then when she came home the other day I was wearing the same shorts and my OTK, high heeled, leather boots and we had a nice evening.

[Isabella Ross]

Wonderful. Personally, I think you have way too much advice on this forum urging you to proceed with extreme caution. I think some caution and restraint is probably a good idea, but your wife clearly is with the program. And as for her being a unicorn? Me thinks not. I think many more women and wives would be down with this, but many of us are too scared of our own lacy shadows to (wo)man up.

[Alice_2014_B]

That is pretty cool Tiffany!
I told my wife before she ever had a chance to find out.

Regardless, your situation has worked out for the better.

[karenph]

Lucky that you have such a supportive wife willing to participate. Awesome!