Originally Posted by
Heather76
I don't mean to play devil's advocate, but............................Is there a particular reason why you are considering counseling? The reason I ask is I never have. Understand, I've only been cross dressing for 3 1/2 years. I've never really questioned why I enjoy it so much and I don't truly know why. When I told my wife, she couldn't understand why I wanted to wear bras, forms, dresses, hosiery, and nighties. I told her I had no idea why; but, the fact is I do. I offered to go to counseling with her if she wanted. She didn't care to; so, we didn't. I dress at least 50% of the time at home. I underdress to some extent 100% of the time as the only underwear I own is lace panties. I feel no guilt or shame about cross dressing and don't believe I'm doing anything wrong. While my wife is neither supportive or thrilled that I CD, she is accepting that I do. So, I go back to the question I posed. Are you struggling with the fact you like to CD or is there some other reaon you feel the need to speak with someone?