Crissy, Liquid courage! I can send you some, but they have it premixed at your local stores in the form of Margaritas, Cosmo's, MaiTai's and so on ;)...
I am into the first few months of my 78th trip around the sun and, thankfully, I appear not to be as advanced in the arthritis areas. Arthritic knees...
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.