If you have a SO who is happy to participate in your cding, how many of you are willing to discuss future changes that you want to incorpate into your dressing/cding lifestyle. By this I mean, if you are going to buy breast forms/wig/ start tucking/wear makeup for the first time/wear fem undies 24/7 would you discuss it with her beforehand, or is it seen as part of and therefore why discuss what is part of cding for you?
Jess