But told to feel bad.
Anyone here ever been betrayed by someone you trusted?
Someone who told others about your secret desire to dress as a woman?
My soon to be ex wife did just that, for no other reason than to hurt me
She does not want the divorce, so she knew that the one thing she could do to me to hurt more than anything was to tell everyon my little secret.
She told all my friends, 4 of my 5 kids, my employees, siblings, in-laws, and anyone else in our community who would listen to her.
It was devastating. I honestly contemplated suicide for a while.
I just knew I could not face anyone ever again, not knowing if they knew my secret.
At first she said she only told 5 people, and we tried to get back together. I overheard a conversation last week with her and her sister here she was laughing at me, saying how stupid I as to think she had only betryad me with 5 people, when in fact she had told everyone she could.
I could not believe it. it still seems surreal
I am coming to terms with it though. It seems that practically all who I have talkd to since then are very supportive and accepting of it (at least to my face)
I have started counciling and have moved forward with my divorce after a marriage of over 20 years
My life has changed so much in the last couple of months
I am so happy to have found this place