I had a friend whose husband I knew CDed. So I told her. And eventually my SO wanted a mutual friend of ours to know, so that hopefully she would be willing to have dinner out with us while my SO was dressed. So I told her but it didn't go well. She was not supportive. And then a year or so later I confided in my brother who lives far away, thinking he would be supportive, but he also expressed concern. So I never mentioned it again.