It?s like you are in my head lol. It started just for sexy times with me as well. Over a couple years I began to wear more than lingerie and heels. I added a few skirts, then makeup. That?s when I started wanting to dress just to dress. The change came when I got my first breast forms. That day I became Kitty full time. The only time I was in dude mode was to run errands and then right back to Kitty. So it?s mostly about being me, oh and there is still plenty of date nights. I no longer get dressed for date night, maybe something sexy but I?m always dressed.