She made it perfectly clear, "If I wanted to be married to a woman, I would have married a woman."

The Talk seems to always be a search for permission and acceptance from the CD point of view but, a spouse usually sees it as her man wanting to be a woman.
And then every bad thing that it could possibly mean like what would the neighbors think if a drag queen was mowing the lawn.
"Oh, that's just Bob. He's decided he's a woman now."

I just think full acceptance because of the talk is rare. Full DADT works wonderfully as an alternative to permission or acceptance.