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  1. 03-22-2006, 11:46 AM #1
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    did'nt dress today

    Last night I asked the wife if I could dress-up today. She said yes but don't expect anything from me. My wife is not very accepting and realy doesn't get the hole transgender thing very well. Except I can not change and I was born that way. this time of year is very busy for her in our /her home office. It is also a very stressfull time for her. today I decided not to dress up because I did not want to put any un needed stress on her. my heart wants to dress so badly but my mind said no no. So here I am setting here in drab.yuck. I'll have to wait till after april 15th. for the good of the houshold. It's been so long sence I have dressed. just thought I'd share with my sista's that one of us is in distress. but I'll be ok soon as I can put on that dress. thanks for listening.
    keep on gurlin everyone. paula may
  2. 03-22-2006, 11:50 AM #2
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    Know how ya feel hun. But maybe time will past quickly for ya0.02
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  4. 03-22-2006, 11:52 AM #4
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    If it helps any I think it's great that you're being considerate.
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  5. 03-22-2006, 12:06 PM #5
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    Hang in there, Paula, a hard time for you, may it pass quickly!
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  6. 03-22-2006, 01:09 PM #6
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    Paula, I understand. Sometimes we are so compleled to dress, but we realize that we have other priorities, and make our decisions as such. I wish your SO could understand your situation. Mine thinks that I never put her first, I tell her everyday I do not dress, I am putting you first. She just doesn't see it that way.
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  7. 03-22-2006, 01:15 PM #7
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    I just think it's great that you asked her in the first place! Fantastic! That type of respect speaks highly of you. Try to hang in there and be supportive of your wife through the tough times!

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  9. 03-22-2006, 01:30 PM #9
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    Quote Originally Posted by paulaN
    I'll have to wait till after april 15th. for the good of the houshold.

    Just one more reason to hate taxes.
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  10. 03-22-2006, 01:36 PM #10
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    Some times we just got to leave our girlie stuff alone, it's just not fair.
  11. 03-22-2006, 03:20 PM #11
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    thanks for all your support girls. I needed the positive comentents. commmmooooonnnnnnn spring.
    keep on gurlin everyone. paula may
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