Yes I said wife because this question is directed at straight married crossdressers. So please no PC patrol😄 I just started thinking if it became a open thing you told your wife. No shame and you didn't let her participate, didn't let her see you and not from an embarrassed angle but a macho angle. Kinda like I'm going to have some MAN time and dress real pretty and dance around to Katy Perry songs. Rebuff attempts and your wife getting involved because of your" no girls allowed" policy😄 Wouldn't that drive most women mad and they'd have to be involved? I myself and a lot of stories I heard all come from weakness and shame, two things that turn women off whether they admit it or not. Screw it, own it to the fullest! Even crossdresser erotica is all about being caught, forced, and very shame based. Just don't go out with the guys because then it just seems gay😄 I'm in a strange mood tonight and this would've worked with my second ex wife. I think it takes a real man to admit they like girly clothes and things. If you go out dressed to the nine 's in public well that takes a brass set my friends😄