Here, we can also find a lot of people asking things like "will others notice if I shave my legs". And most answers are "nobody will notice", "there is more acceptance", "tolerance has become higher", etc, etc. Some others answer "who cares, it's your life/body" but the truth is that many people cares, and this is why we find many of these questions here.
I know somebody who was in Orlando, and was attended in an Ice Cream store by a crossdresser. She was polite and said nothing, but she commented to everyone when she was back to the table. The CD did not hear a thing. And I guess that maybe she thought that with this customer, she passed, or didn't care, or was accepted. Pretty far from reality.
Not only about passing, the same with leg shaving, plucking, ladies jeans, etc. People might not say a word, but people take notice.
An a GG can tolerate crossdressing, even advocate for LGBT rights, But the same GG could freak out when they discover that her husband is a crossdresser. I think that this illustrates the difference between "tolerating" and "accepting".
What do you think?