Okay so here's my question. I have been getting better or I should say I've started to be more open with a very few close friends about my crossdressing and sexuality. I starred telling them simply because I thought it would make me more honest with them and help lessen the burden of living a lie. I have had them ask me that question " why did you tell me?". My answer was the honesty and the lessening of the burden. But here's my question. If nobody knows then is in really lying if we keep that part of us to ourselves? What do hope to gain from coming out? Do we hope it takes our friendship to another level? My wife knows all about me and is very supportive and accepting. So why do I feel the need to burden someone else with that knowledge when it really has nothing to do with them? I'm very curious to hear everyone's thoughts.