at one time i once was in the "him" mode on time for everything and most of the time way early for appomints and things now as i think and do things more "wendy" i never on time no matter how hard i try to be on time i am always running late . with the "him" hair short it was wash and go now like 2 hours just to dry and get my hair ready ... nails have to be done ... a little make up ...honestly if i start to get ready to go any were it can take up to four hours to get out the door....has anyone else found that just haveing to be some were at a certen time is way too hard to do???/