I'd have to agree with the majority here. My SO and I quite different in style. I'd wear skirts and dresses every day of my life and she'd wear jeans and sweats every day of her life. She's rather boho and I'm rather (to steal an already coined phrase) "executive transvestite". The good thing is that I have won her over to mary janes.

I do find it interesting that many of us have SOs who aren't as femme as we are. I guess, just like most everything else, it's all about yin and yang. And that is perfectly okay with me.

I do love the way my SO dresses and she loves the way I dress. So all is right in this world.