Completely hypothetical here, because I've been wondering. All TRANSSEXUALS can answer.
Imagine that the person of your dreams -- I won't bother describing him/her, obviously -- is real and interested in you. And this is the person you've been dreaming of -- real or imaginary, I don't care, but this is the person you believe can make you happy like no other.
Except, this person says that they'll only take you if you're the gender you were born as. No cross-dressing, revert back to your original name, and accept ma'am/sir, she/he.
Would you do it?