I am a hetrosexual. Very much in love with my wife. And lately on this forum I have noticed alot of the members are talking about having relationships with men and women. So it made me wonder how many CDer's have done this and is this a reason for some who CD to help them identify their sexual idenity...
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No, but I am a little intrigued by it.
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I am only interested in GGs. Guys Gross me out. I would not mind having CDers as friends to do things with, but Not sexual relations.
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My wife too is worried about it, we have had 3somes in the past with other guys well twice, and once i did perform with HIM for her I am BI but I dont push that onto her .Im happy 2 be with her sexually as long as I can be ME>>>Originally Posted by TV Wannabe
I wonder if gay men have similar stereotypes as we do about them?
Why such a fear of homosexuality I wonder? I don't buy into the lesbian when dressed thing but that tis just me and I don't think I could say it was wrong.
My feelings change as often as my mood I guess. I was born a man. I do not consider myself a crossdresser. I am more attracted to men than women.
When I was a child I was raised to believe homosexuality is a moral sin. as I grew up I associated with gay communities more than straight.
As I got older I still had an almost subconscious apprehension of homosexuality much like a hidden voice saying "hate gays".
Over the last several years I have finally given up that foolishness.
I have never slept with a man and for the last I do not know how many years, have not had sex period. I just did not feel like it.
I find women attractive but no longer in a purely sexual way. It is more an admiration when i see a very beautiful and attractive woman, I appreciate her.
When I see a very beautiful man it is more sexual but I could never see myself as a man with a man. Not because I see it as wrong but because at my core I have a soul, if I believed in such, as a woman and it is as a woman I want to have a relationship.
I don't know what that makes me nor do I really care. Sex is not my driving force and attraction is attraction regardless of the gender of the person.
I would prefer a long term relationship with a wonderful man but only as a woman.
I would and could have sex with a woman but I just do not think I could have the same deep feelings as I once thought I could.
This is why I think living life without barriers of sex and orientation is so much healthier, it allows us to truly grow.
No but is my wifes biggest worry.
Staying in the closet isn't so bad as long as you know why your in there.
Same here.
DonnaT
I noticed that long ago, I for one do not think the grass is greener on the other side of the fence...I perfectly happy with my sweetie and she is happy with me...
I'm sure it is an individual preference - just as there are many types of sexuality among the po-pulation at large. It is affected by our upbringing, religion and a million other things.
I think, in my case, I just totally wanted to experiece everything from a feminine point of view. I weanted my appearance and personality to be as deminine as possible. Did thid lead me to sexual experimentatiom, was I always leaning that way, if I want to appear as femionine as possible is that the last step? All very good questions. The answers though are most likely determined by each and every individual and what they deeply feel about it.
Many never cross that line, some are intrigued, some repelled, some have no interest whatsoever, some jump in with both high heels. It does take all types to make a world.
Dawn
Don,t appeal to me!!
not dressed- hot blooded straight male
dressed- hot blooded 'lipstick lesbian'
I tried it, it was okay, didn't do it again. And I "had to be" a woman while involved. Couldn't see a man-and-man thing. That thought was turning me off at the time.
Amazing to me that so much research (Kinsey etc.) has shown that many men have had a same sex encounter and yet it seems that the cd community seems like very few. Is it really that way or is it a biased question. For me i have long said i was ambisexual...could do it with either hand....in reality I am bigendered and for me to be fulfilled instead of just (him) being gratified a hetero (me being with a man) encounter may well be desired and may never be consumated
Lora
All I want is a world somewhere, a place to wear pretty underwear
A dress, some makeup, hose and heels
OH wouldn't it be loverly
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Nope.
Nope, I'm a happy hetrosexual with just a few 'kinks'
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I think it is mostly fantasy talk, I think that at some time during your life you may wonder, and that is just curiosity. If faced with a real situation, I personally believe that most would avoid a same sex experience.
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Tamara
None here. I wouldn't absolutely rule it out, but it isn't on my "43 things" list.
I am bi, wife knows. She kind of ignores it. We had one experience, her, me and another guy. She enjoyed it but does not want to do it again.
I am bi sexual and very comfortable with it.
SarahHall
Nope, not interested in changing teams.
Jen
i have only had one same sex encounter i really enjoyed it and would do it again given the chance .I am bi sexual and very comfortable with it.
Does anyone find that they would only entertain the idea of being with a man while they're dressed?
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Well...so far that's exactly it! sort of.....maybe.....kind of.....i guess
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Here's one I bet not many can say! I've only been to bed with one woman in my life - my wife of 20 years. I have no interest in men.
Kim, I'm one of the "not many." Don't take this as one-upgirlship, but I got you by 5 years!
It's nice to know, though, that I'm not the only one.
Men in fantasy, maybe, but definately would consider myself lesbianical; men in reality, nope!
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