Hi all,
Going to start this thread with 'I AM WHO I AM', read on then you will understand,
I have tried for many years to come to terms with who i am, i have researched, dicussed and studied long and hard to find this out, my conclusion is that i am a crossdresser (and i like it)
My SO is approving of my behaviour and sometimes helps out with clothing, make-up tips etc.
Now to the bit i dont get...she approves which is good however she says i,m not a crossdresser but just an ordinary (define ordinary someone please) guy who likes to wear womens clothing time to time, took me a long time to come out and then be told i,m not dont anyone get me wrong, i'm very happy with any definition of who i am but it does bring about a good question... at what point is someone a crossdresser???
example 1, me
example 2, a guy plays the part of the dame every year at the local panto, he dresses in what is expected of a dame, he only plays this part throughout the festive season maybe 3 times a year only...
if he enjoys wearing the clothes is he CD?
example 3, a guy works in a very cold garage, he's a mechanic, to keep himself warm he wears pantyhose under his overalls,...so.. if he wears them purely to keep warm hes not cd? (ask his workmates!!), if however he enjoys wearing them is he cd?, if he is excited about wearing them is he cd? or is this just a fetish on underwear??
any thoughts??, any idea of when its crossdressing and when its not?
back to the start of this thread....I AM WHO I AM
ps, could have been worse..could have said to the SO i was a transvestite
confused? i am