well they caught me, that was how they found out, unfortunately. they just don't understand it, or accept it. they ask now and then if I wan't to talk about it, I just find it hard though, not sure why, but I know I like my girl side.
that is why I feel a little isolated I guess, as it is hard to find others that understand. but I'm a pretty positive person and deal with that ok. there are others I chat with online as well so it helps too.