Ok here goes, what do we understand about the word Gender Queer? I'm not wanting quotes I want you own personal understanding. I'm asking this cos I think it's one of the hardest things to understand. It's open to everyone
For me it means that I have both female and male elements but I definitely feel more masculine hence how I present. I want to pass as much as possible so I deal with ppl who call me by my female name in my own way cos it's usually ppl who have always known me and I am not completely out to or those who find it hard to flip in their minds to me as Felix, I am understanding. Also I do feel that I have a female spirit that keeps me in check and a psyche that is male and is dominant in many ways. It also means that I do not have to have all the bits if I don't want. Yes I want to feel more male and yes I would love a chest but I don't want a real p****. This is the first time I think I have said this here but I feel I can now. I do enjoy p****** and it feels right but that's as far as it goes and I'm pretty sure about that. For me and I think this is was make's me gender queer is the fact that I don't feel that having a false p**** attached to me will make me a genetic male as will having hormones. For me having hormones will help my body come in line with my psyche and that's good. So it's not important to have the other. I'm quite happy to p***!! Hope I make sense peeps xx Felix