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    Dreaming is half the fun.
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    Smile Are You Diferent When Dressed?

    Hi family, I have questtion about hoe do you behave when dressed? As a guy I'm tuff, get things done resoursefull, don't look at me funny I could wipe the floor with you, can lift 150lbs , work 12 hours a day 6 days a week, but........ Alma, she is so sweet, shy, and some times helpless, fragil. Does it happen to any body out there? I appriciate your input.


    Alma....

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    I find myself to become more confident, more outgoing when I'm dressed as a woman. As a guy I'm kinda wimpy.

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    I'm more relax and at ease as janie almost like all my worries are gone if just at that moment that i'm her.
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    I feel like I'm a little more confident and impulsive as Tasha. And generally I become more sociable versus my normal shy and impatient mood. It makes me feel more free-spirited overall.

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    Yes, I think I'm similar. I'm tall, lean and mean; rarely does anyone even think of messing with me as man me. But when I'm dressed, I'm girly and relaxed and soft. Of course if anyone ever dared rip my wig away I would revert to the big bad man.

    Kind of like Bruce Banner/ The Incredible Hulk I suppose.
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    I'm calmer and more relaxed when I'm fem.I'm an easygoing male person but I can be a little tense and gruff when I'm in drab.That doesn't happen as much when I'm enfemme.

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    I would like to think that i'm big enough to intimidate others when my guy self. As a woman, well i still have broad shoulders and an attitude, I do find myself talking a lot more, and maybe a bit more sensitive.
    i am what I am, I do what I do..
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    Yes...I feel different - behave different. I become more aware of my movements/positions of my head, hands, arms & legs.

    Soft, sexy lingerie will calm the tiger in my tank any day!
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    A Big Difference

    In male mode I am reserved. When I am enfemme I am very coquettish. I prefer the latter. & Trina Irish Sex Goddess
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    My Love of Cat's Eye Frames, Bangles, Red Lipstick, Nails, & Cheeks, Comes From My Mother - An Irish Beauty

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    What an interesting concept. Never really thought about it but if I had to choose, I'd say that I'm less grumpy.
    Life's too short to not do the things that make you happy.

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    I'm more or less the same person because I have never been very macho to start with, but I do feel more compassionate and freer with giving and love when I'm highlighting my feminine side. I feel a bit more at peace too...not sure if that's just being feminine or touching my core personality (ie TG?) more.

    It's an interesting journey, that's for sure.
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    Hi
    I think I'm the same whether dressed or not...I'm just me either way..I have noticed one thing that changes when I'm dressed...I leave a small bit of my lips on my glass..frankly it's unnerving..dress too often, I'll have no lips left!!:joke:
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    I'm not much different, outgoing, confident, adventureous.... friendly....

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    .......My Photos

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    nahhh pretty much the same never met a stranger


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    clearly:

    quieter, softer, tidier, almost fastidious, much more aware of my body and it's motions and of my language, and I become left-handed.

    heavens, in guy mode when do we worry about fixing our makeup????


    Tina

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    As Salandra I'm more people oriented and a little more easier going but don't "cross" me if you know what's good for you.
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    Come to think of it I'm a bit more upbeat and cheery as Suzie. In guy mode I can get grumpy and sarcastic sometimes, so my wife says! LOL! It's nice to swing a purse for a while after swinging a hammer all day!

    Suzie S.

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    Some but not that bad I like to do house work when I'm derssed
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    Smile Thank You.

    Hi family, Just wanted to say THANK YOU VERY MUCH! for the great input, it is great to konw that there are so many people that I can share my feeling ( crossdressing ) with. Aloha and take care....

    Alma love.

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    just one of the girls diane59's Avatar
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    I believe when I change clothes I also change gender. I think that is what crossdressing is all about in my eyes.
    I am 5'9" 220 lbs and heavily into martial arts & quite intimidating in drab.

    However when I transform, I am Diane and only Diane (Little Angel)
    "Diane"

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    I'm Marcie

    When dressed I'm a combination of two, a Max Klinger, crazy, like a fox out going and just about as graceful, but...then theres the June Cleaver in me, my wife loves it, I'm a regular little house wife to her, or is it a house husband, errrrrr, well I'm something to her and she likes it...

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    Cassy is much less agressive, she is softer and more soft spoken. My wife has commented more than once about the change. She likes Cassy to do her hair color for her. Yes, I've been doing it for years.

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    Not dressing 24/7, and rarely dresing in front of anyone, how can I really say. I don't feel significantly different though. I still do the same hobbies, watch the same TV, listen to the same music, talk the same on the phone. I'm passive aggressive - mostly friendly, a little quiet, patiently waiting for my openings. Just when dressed I'm free of the anxiety to dress and I feel content - perhaps that shows through somewhere . . .

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    Its true

    There does seem to be a sort of change. My daughter phoned me the other day while I was dressed and she said quite unequivocally that I did not sound like the same person she knew. My personality had changed considerably. Not sure what she meant but I guess that it was as though I had become another woman - listening and interrupting at the same time, for example.

    I am typing this dressed knowing that I feel more relaxed and comfortable in my alter ego. If only I didn't have to take the clothes off again.....

    Love and hugs to you all - Madeleine xx
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    I love walking around as Jasmine being Jasmine helps me to be free from worries.
    Love as always Jasminexxxxxxxx

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