Have you ever gone out and actually didn't want to pass? I did the other night. Pictures are here http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ad.php?t=42897
While I enjoyed the experience of being totally enfemme, I had the best time being noticed or read. Striking up a conversation with a male/female couple or some GG's, to me, is sometimes more enlightening than passing or going unnoticed. One of my GG friends that was with me, called me an attention wh*re. The town I was in is very Tfriendly, so, people are not shocked to see a crossdresser, in fact I believe it may be a highlight of their evening.