I agree totally with Tammy Marie and would like to just add one point:
If a marriage only has the one issue.. just the CDing. I don't think there are very women who would even consider divorce.
If I were a CD.. I'd fix those other things. And come out of the closet and be the real me to my wife. It truly is amazing to me that we allow so many really bad relationship problems out in the light of day and yet keep this so secret.
Its really an upside down world sometimes.
Love & Hugs
~Kitty~