I agree with everything that you said and I think that you make some excellent points. Personally, I have never even considered living full time as a woman. I couldn't do it, I couldn't pass, and I'm sure I wouldn't like it. There are a lot of things I love about being a man, and to me, that's the idea behind dressing, being a guy in girls clothes.
I agree though that anyone that wants to get SRS should spend at least a couple of months living as a full time woman. That's a big decision. I also agree that a lot of people that want to live 24/7 as a woman don't know for sure what it's all about. Good thread.