i have been here only a few times. quick reminder wife was cool pushed me into forum had me chat then the 360 and she took off with our son. no longer supporting my cd ing. well here i am about a month later and i need advice please!!! what i am asking is i know not every gg here knew from the get go that their so was a c/d (mine was told b-4 marriage chose not to believe)
what am asking is what kind of benefits(or negatives) of the new realationship with your so cding. this may be my last chance to get her to go to therapy with a more open mind as to how much this means to me. though if that dont work i am prepared to fully kill off my other self for as long as i can. i love her so much and i know she loves me but she is so closed minded that she would rather leave me then work on this together she feel this is against the norm and is a sin and she cant live with the fact i will do this most likely the rest of my life. also she has other fears like (gay transition my getting caught or found out).. just need a few gg's to give me the best and worse case scenerios from there expirience... thanks so much
the male side of jess