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    DawnRodgers DawnRodgers's Avatar
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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV?
    Started as a TV now consider myself TS.

    What age did you begin to cross dress?
    First time about 12. Dressed as a gypsy girl for Halloween.
    Second about 15. Dressed in mom's nylons heels, corselet and a skirt and blouse.
    Seriously - about 22. Going strong ever since.

    How old were you when you married?
    21.

    How long after marriage did your children come along?
    3 kids. At 9 1/3 months, 21 months and 38 months after marraige.

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    Fearlessly Independent RebeccaLynne's Avatar
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    CD. First wore a dress before kindergarten. Married at 23. First child at 31.

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    Girdled member Maureen Henley's Avatar
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    CD - TG

    began before puberty

    1st marriage - 26

    2nd marriage - 31

    no children, now age 53
    One's true gender is in the heart and soul, not one's anatomy.

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    Dancing Queen DawnLabelle's Avatar
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    I identify as CD usually, sometimes fetishistic, sometimes almost TG

    Have early childhood memories of dressing once and occasionally modifying my clothing to appear more feminine (but always on the sly) such as pulling the legs of my loose shorts together to look like a skirt, rolling my white socks down so it made like a donut around your ankle (all the girls wore their socks like that in my primary school). First time I tried actually dressing in womens clothing (lingerie and skirts / slips at first, lots of dresses were hung in my closet cause my mom lacked space but I dont remember trying that at that time) I guess I was around 11 or so. Have been dressing on and off ever since then, usually in times of depression or lonliness. When I'm happy and busy with other stuff, like a new love, or just super packed weekends, I don't even think about it.

    Never married but I wanted marriage and kids by 25 (am 28 now) and would have if I had not split with that GF. So the common desire was there.

    Dawn
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    Trans Species Joy Carter's Avatar
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    Fast Track

    Identify as CD but lean toward TG- First time three or four- Married at twenty- first child a year latter second two years latter. I'm the most lucky parent and SO in the world or so I tell myself.

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    Consider myself CD. First dressed at age 7. Married at 21, first daughter a year later and second daughter five years later.

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    I consider myself a cd and have been so all my life. I was married at 22 and had first child at 26. Was married for 33 years before the lovely lady that now referrs to me as her ex-husband decided she didn't want to be married anymore. I have been divorced for 6 years..

    Jodi

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    Respondent to Survey

    Consider myself a CD with TV tendicies
    Started @ 12 with Mom's hosiery and girdles
    Married @ Age 30, no children after 23 years trying.

    Love to see the statisical summary of this one.

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    Survey

    Good Survey Kimberly.

    Here are my stats:

    I'm a: Crossdresser

    Started CD'ing: Age 10

    Married at: 29

    Remarried at: 34

    One child at age: 39
    You can dress me up but you can't take me out...at least not yet.

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    TS/TG
    xd'd about 13 with earlier tendencies
    married at 29
    children at 35 and 37

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    [SIZE=4]I was 12 when I first wore my mothers panties and stockings.[/SIZE]
    [SIZE=4]I am a TV and hate being called a CD (Angry wardrobe).[/SIZE]
    [SIZE=4]I married when I was 24 and our daughter was born 2 yrs later and my 40th wedding anniversary is next month.[/SIZE]
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    Aspiring Member ronda's Avatar
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    i crossed dressed as early as i can remember i know by age 5
    i married the first time at age 16 my son was born shortly after
    hugs
    Ronda

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    I am at least a CD, but maybe more.
    I began dressing around age 12.
    I married at age 28.
    We had our daughter after 8 yrs of marriage.
    Rachel Denise

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    Spectrum Position!!

    I am still not 100% sure of the terminology. I think I am TG . My 1st Marriage at 29 ( to a 19 y.o was a disaster.) We had two girls. I was 31 and 33 respectively. I did not want Children. (I was a selfish shit!!) once I had them, I adored them. Children were not a way of proving my gender status. Truth be told. I wish I was the one who gave birth to them. Just another joy (or pain!!) that was denied me by a quirk of nature.

    Hugs, Sarah R.
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    I identify as TS/TG
    I cross dressed from my earliest memories.
    I was 20 when I married my beautiful wife.
    Our children came 13 months after we married and the second one 19 months later the third came along 4 years and 6 months later
    [SIZE="3"][SIZE="4"]Toni Shelton[/SIZE][/SIZE]

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    Not plus sized anymore! sharifemme's Avatar
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    Maybe 8 YO - Can't remember back that far!
    Married at 21
    Children 16 mo after marriage

    Sharifemme



    Quote Originally Posted by Kimberley
    I have read stats where it is claimed that those of us who are TG have a tendancy to marry young and have children shortly after. This is claimed to be a mechanism where we try to overcompensate for being TS/TG or CD; a false thought that it will "cure us".

    This question is primarily pointed at lifelong CD's however "late bloomers" are also welcome to answer. Please just differentiate when you started. So here are the questions.

    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV?
    What age did you begin to cross dress?
    How old were you when you married?
    How long after marriage did your children come along?

    Please try to stick to the answers and keep them brief (no pun intended).

    And yes, I would like to hear from the F2M's as well.

    Thanks to all.
    Hugs,
    Kimberley.
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    Addendum
    I am doing a statistical analysis on this info, so the larger the sample size the better.

    Thanks again.
    *****************

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    Soccer Mom in Training MsEva's Avatar
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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV? TG to CD
    What age did you begin to cross dress? I began early with a fascination, 15 when totally dressed
    How old were you when you married? 24
    How long after marriage did your children come along? 33

    Hope that helps.

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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV? TV/CD
    What age did you begin to cross dress? 44
    How old were you when you married? 21
    How long after marriage did your children come along? 2 years

    Ruth

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    Living day to day. Kayla Smith's Avatar
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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV? TS(non-op)

    What age did you begin to cross dress? About 9 years old unless wearing my mom's heels around the house when I was 4 or 5 counts

    How old were you when you married? 22 years old ( married in 1991 to a beautiful woman and still married to her )

    How long after marriage did your children come along? First daughter was born in March of 1992 and the second was born in December of 1993
    Kayla Horn

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    I consider myself a CD

    I was married at 27 (10 yrs ago)

    1st/only child at 37 (5 yrs ago)
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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV?

    CD although I think a lot about 24 x 7

    What age did you begin to cross dress?
    11

    How old were you when you married?
    23 and WAY too young

    How long after marriage did your children come along?
    One daughter, 7 years after

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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV? TG/CD

    CD or TV

    What age did you begin to cross dress? 12

    How old were you when you married? 33 years

    How long after marriage did your children come along?
    5 months! then 2 and 4 years

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    I guess I'd call myself a CD

    Started somewhere around 10 to 12

    Married at 27 (first and only, still am)

    First child at 10 months,(too frisky too fast) the next at 3 yrs then the last at 5 yrs.
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    Do you consider yourself TS/TG, CD or TV?

    Crossdresser

    What age did you begin to cross dress?


    I would say around 10 or 11

    How old were you when you married?

    I got married when I was 31

    How long after marriage did your children come along?

    First child is on it's way, but to answer the question 6 months

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    On the Capn's Ship Kimberley's Avatar
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    Early Results.

    This actually is quite interesting. So far:

    TV/CD Avg marriage at 25.5 yrs, First child 41.6 months later, started at 10.7 yrs.

    TG Avg marriage at 26 yrs, First child 20 months later, started at 8.3 yrs

    TS Avg marriage at 21.4 yrs, Firt child 21.2 months later, started at 7.3 yrs.

    These are the statistical averages of the reported data. The standard deviation (variance) is quite large due to the small sample size. More data will only refine these results.

    Thanks for your candor girls.

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