So would you....?

[Jennaie]

Why didn't you offer this to me when I was 12, not 50.

Jennaie :be:

[Shelly Preston]

I would be extremely upset

If the shock does not kill me.

I would most likely cope and adjust to the change eventually

I would be more worried about the effect on my family.

[Elsie GG]

As a GG with a heterosexual cross-dresser in the family - I would be stressed if suddenly she became a she permanently. If She decides she wants to make a permanent chNGE, I would want discussion and some time to adapt to the potential of a permanent change.

[Seven]

Girls May I please also ask one more thing,

How many of you then,would love to give berth to a Baby or maybe two ? with no gas & air ,the full 12 months bit, I must say that's making me think a bit, also the pain with the monthlys, then the PMTs. I just got to think about this one. or am I just better of, just cross dress ? GG have a hard life, it's not just stockings and lace, No I take my hat of them all.

XXXXXXXXX Seven

[HaleyPink2000]

Well, in a few a words.

Darn, look at that! Wife answers " Did you do that"! My smirky reply " Well, I won't have to adjust it getting in the Truck any more"! Not really answering her question, like normal. LOL

[kim in n.c.]

In a heart beat! But with one condition. If the part that fell off could still function. Can I keep it.
Ill let it out and take care of it, pleeeeease

[CaptLex]

On the other hand for the FtM's and GG's how would you feel if you woke up one morning with male equipment?

I suppose i should have added that...that yes you would somehow transform into the other sex 100%.

Good post, Deborah. If I woke up like that one day, I would first check to be sure I was really awake and not still dreaming. If it were really true, it would be like Christmas and the Fourth of July wrapped into one for me. O happy day!

[Bernice]

An interesting post. The premise presumes that we were not consulted beforehand, i.e. that it is a total surprise. That takes all of the guilt and preparation out of it. There would be no negotiation with family, doctors, etc, and this would happen presumably at no financial cost, as well as hopefully with no pain and recovery.

Another thing about this fantasy is that it is not reversable. We have no choice, the deed is done. The only question is are we happy about it?

Certainly, any time there is a sudden major life change, we are advised to make the best of it. Certainly there would be a period of adjustment. I could worry about the affect on my family, but with no option to reverse course, my family's feelings are essentially beyond my control. They would have to come to grips with the fact that there is nothing I can do about it.

Leave it to Bernice to take a casual question and analyze it to death...

So to answer the question more directly: yes, absolutely, estatic, overjoyed, seventh heaven. Any questions?

The whole idea makes me want to say some prayers, log off, and take a nap!

Hugs,

Bernice

[Adrienne Heels]

Oh, yes, that would be so wonderful to suddenly wake up 100% woman!!

If only it could really happen like that.....

[Kimberley]

This is a no brainer Deb.

Do I have to take dance lessons first because it would be a jig? Such are the wishes of a TG/TS.

Kimberley.

[Julie Avery]

If I may borrow two of Marla's inimitable expressions, if Mr. Happy were to take a permanent vacation and I still looked like a chimp in a burlap sack, I would not be a happy camper.

[Lindahexi]

If I woke up to find my male bits gone, but I had all the femme attributes, namely curvy body, good looks, nice high voice and all the other things I've wanted all my life, I'd be on cloud nine. Supposedly negative things about being female such as childbirth, monthly's etc do not put me off, I've always felt like a woman trapped in a mans body, so I'd feel complete at last.

[mistunderstood]

Well I would be a happy camper.

[Tina Dixon]

Well now that my wife found out about my dressing this week end, it could happen real soon

[ChristineRenee]

I wouldn't miss it quite honestly.

[Deborah]

Well now that my wife found out about my dressing this week end, it could happen real soon

[SIZE=3]If you're married then your wife owns it anyway. Didn't you read the clause at the bottom of the marriage license.[/SIZE]

[Bev06 GG]

MORTIFIED FOR BOTH OF US I LIKE THINGS JUST THE WAY THEY ARE THANKS.

BEVXXX

[Lauren Mitchell]

Let's see...I already do number one sitting down while dressed...and as long as I can enjoy the big "O" and can develop breasts, why not?

[trannie T]

I like having all my parts. But if I lost them at least I would have something to wear.

[Helen MC]

I have thought about this question over many years.

When I was a teenager and about a year or so after I had started to crossdress there was an incident in the UK where a boy of about the same age as I was then was burned by a firework that some thugs had lit and put down his trousers and as a result of the burns he had to have his penis and testicles removed. This event was the topic of some gruesome discussion the next day in school and most of the boys grimaced when they read about it even in the more restrained prose of 1966/67. "He'll have to be brought up as a girl" was the opinion of most of my fellow pupils. Now at that age I did not have knowledge of the complexities of transgender issues and had only just found out from reading the "Problems Page" in my mother's magazines that I was myself a Transvestite (the term "Crossdresser" not being common then).

I thought a lot about this and whilst I would not have wanted all the intense and prolonged pain and other physical traumas of such severe burns as this lad had suffered, I did think what it would be like to lose my penis and testicles and if so would I then live as a girl? Since then there have been many incidents of men losing their "family jewels" owing to illness or accident and I have contemplated the outcome of such an event.

Whilst having quite a lot of female emotional and psychological attributes I developed into a heterosexual male, albeit a fetishistic cross-dressing one, and in physical relationships my penis and testicles have of course been of benefit, as they still are in an autoerotic basis. However, in the purely biological sense they have not as I have not and never will father children I have never wanted to, anything but, and even in the basic utility of the penis enabling the male to stand to pee, I have since the age of 12 prefered to sit like a woman when urinating so that is of no real benefit to me either.

To try to answer the question, as I live my life these days the absence of male genitalia is something I feel I could adapt to without too much bother, far less so than your "normal" butch macho male. Certainly I would far rather lose my genitals than my eyesight, hands, legs , mobility, sanity, etc.

[heather_nouveau]

Deborah:


I think I would be "terribly relieved" would better express my feelings rather than "terribly upset!"

I would be okay with it.

Heather

[Sam-antha]

Well now, first I would be shocked and then I would want to experiment and then....tell you after Ihave thought..

But ;
Did it fall off when I was asleep or,

Did it fall onto the floor when I stood up ?

[Maureen Henley]

I have often had that fantasy. The reality is, so long as my wife is alive, I hope it never happens, because I think the transformation would upset her greatly. Not the fact that I could no longer make love to her, because our love life is nil (my fault, not hers), but because she still wants her husband around.

Were she to pass away, then bring it on. I would love it.

[Denise01]

It is amazing I have had that dream on several occasions. I would be very happpy if it did happen. My only major thought would by why did it not happen many years ago

Denise

[Abraxas]

I'd be rather happy about that, I think, but there is also the whole thing about what would my family think, how do I explain this to my friends... Now I definitely can't have a straight boyfriend... that kind of thing.
If it didn't effect anybody but me, I'd be pleased as punch!