A little off topic, and not intended to offend anyone, just interested:
I was just curious about this, because I've noticed it on forums like this and other crossdressing boards over the years, that whenever someone is talking about their wife of girlfriend, or boyfriend, or husband, they almost always use the phrase "My SO."
I'm just curious, when did "Significant Other" become the defacto term in the crossdressing community for our partners? I guess to me it just feels like an effort towards being ultra-PC that always feels a little silly. I can't remember the last time, in public, I heard someone refer to their partner as their "SO." And I don't think the term "My SO" implies any less level of ownership to a person than "My wife" or "my spouse" does.
To me, Significant Other just feels so cold, it's like the phrase "Human Resources" which has taken over "Personel." It has made workers into a resource, human beings into a type of number to be filed away and considered like office supplies. I personally would never like to hear a girlfriend refer to me as her "SO." I like the term Boyfriend, I'm happy to hear it affectionately attributed to me. It doesn't feel like I was just assigned to her.
and we're trying to PC it up by not implying sexual preference, we seem to fail when we then identify our SO as "her" or "him." And why SO instead of LTC for Long Time Companion?
And does typing SO really save all that much time instead of using the more specific terms? It's not like we've made an effort to reduce all our other typing down to quick two letter titles. So why this specific phrase?