Well said, Jennifer! Your last paragraph is especially spot on. I try to be an ambassador for that message by presenting the best "dude in a dress" that I can. My outfits are modest, well fitted and age appropriate. My aim is to be tasteful, hold my head high and OWN IT! I am hoping for two things. One, to show the general public that CD's are not creeps,, as you say. The other is that I get seen by a closeted CD who is then encouraged to uncloset himself/herself a bit more.
