Suzanne, I could not agree with you more! There are some hetero cd's that try so hard not to be discovered that they create an outward intolerance of gays and other different people while being their male self. They are so paranoid someone will find out that they feel like they have to bash gays, transgendered and others or someone will accuse them of being a member of one of these groups simply because they are accepting. It's sad, unproductive for them and invites unaccepting people into their life.

I'm a huge consumer of literature on positive thought and self development and this situation brings to mind 2 quotes from one of my favorite authors - Zig Ziglar. He says "EXACTLY what you put out is EXACTLY what you get in return" and " You are the sum of the 5 people you hang with most"

Spread love and it will come bak to you one way or another!