I'm not sure it's ok for me to post here but I have a question.
Sunday I was at a craft show. One of the booths sold metal sculptures. You know for the garden and stuff. It was run by a female who was dressed totally as male. Being trans myself I was able to tell when many people may not. I know that most M to F's want to be called "She". Trying to be respectful and after this person said "My partner and I make these out of things we find" my SO said to me "doesn't he do great work?" We were immediately corrected "it's she".
Where did we go wrong?