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:thumbup: Thanks for posting this! I totally agree, that's one thing that is a bit strange for me, is how people on this board always say "feel like a woman", I'm a woman but I just feel like a...

That's good things are going a bit better now. Remember too there are books that can really help. When I first found out, I didn't really know there was such a thing as a crossdresser, so I felt a...

I think a good idea would be seeing a therapist together. Bringing in a third party who has no reason to take either side might help, and you may be able to figure out issues that are bother either...

Yeah but I would think that being in a relationship isn't considered just "public". I tell my SO private stuff because we are both open and honest, and trust each other. Tgirl told me right off...

Hey maybe she'll like it! I love Tgirl74's soft smooth arms/body.... before him I went out with a guy who was seriously like the missing link, the hairiest person EVER. So going from that to Tgirl...

Well I think part of it too is that GGs don't have to hide it, it's not seen as "bad" or some fetish. So it's just like whatever to us, you know? Sure I don't like wearing dresses, but if I did...

I think mainly it's just CD's that get this much joy out of it ;) I admit, I do like to buy lip gloss that is fruity! But all the other stuff you mentioned is things I never even notice or have...

I have no idea about my first pair. I very very rarely wear them, as I barely ever wear dresses :p I don't find them comfortable, they always hang down in the crotch area, annoying.

I don't...

Congrats :D That's great you were able to come out and tell her about yourself!! Very admirable :)

One question though, where you said: "We agreed my dad would probably not understand the whole,...

Have you ever bought a minimizer bra? I used to wear them in middle school cause I developed my full chest size like, right then and no one else had, so felt self concious :o I don't remember them...

I didn't read the whole thread but I know one thing that I think is a real big help in furthering the CD cause is GNO(Girls Night Out), which I think right now is just a New England(in the US) thing?...

But you know what, even with just the shaving, I don't think you should feel so self concious about it. Go swimming if you want! It's more common nowdays for guys to shave themselves anyway, I mean...

lol suuure Jacinda, I saw you yelling at the tv yesterday! :tongueout

I agree! Wish I could just take off my shirt in hot weather like guys do but I think the reaction would not be good(or maybe it would be TOO good lol).

Cause us women are always cold :p The problem with wearing shorts on a hot day is that then you go into a store/wherever and they have the air conditioner blasting, so then you're freezing. Or...

I've done the nod ;) Except I think I only do it to guys I don't quite like. Sort of like a "I'm acknowledging you but don't feel like saying hi cause I don't want to actually talk to you". Ok and...

^I think my SO Tgirl74 feels similar. I tell her to post but she'll only read threads/lurk! :cheeky:

I never call my SO by the female name, unless we happen to be at a CD gathering or CD messege board, then I feel it's the polite thing to do. As far as I know this "arrangment" that we both prefer :)

Here's a question though: If it was standard for men to wear dresses/skirts and women to wear pants, would there be crossdressers? Would those crossdressers be mostly male or mostly female? Would...

Have you thought of posting a personal ad? That's probably a good way to find a GG interested in crossdressing :) For myself I wouldn't have been here if I didn't meet my SO cause I never really...

Well people should remember too that there are gay or bi CDs :) I think just as long as you're honest though, if someone asks if you're gay say you're not, besides that whatever, people can think...

Did finding out about your SO's xdressing - whether by accident or having the "talk" - ultimately make your relationship better?
I found out pretty early in our relationship...but I'm willing to bet...

Tammy have you actually asked Danielle? What did she say? Did you feel like she was trying to not answer or didn't know what to say?

Like I told you before, I think it could be that Danielle...

I think for most women, knowing that their SO dresses in women's clothing, they still want to know that when he looks at her, he isn't thinking "I want to look like you", they want to know he's...

I don't usually care what other people do with their own time, but that pad/tampon thread still haunts me :doh: It just makes me think some CDrs are overly romanticising it...they think wearing a pad...